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Please help! 
1 day after intercourse with my current girlfriend she told me we could not have sex for a while. i asked why and she told me she was sore. when i went …

I'm scared!! I might have something? Ingrown hairs or jock itch  
Well I shaved all my pubic hair off, even on my nuts an nothing appears to be there before I shaved, then I slept with this woman an asked her if she had …

Herpes is not the end of the world.. There is hope.. 
I met my boyfriend this time last year.. We hung out and went on dates and I started to like him .. We continued this for a few months.. One day he told …

herpes or infection? 
i'm 16 and i had sex for the first time last month with my friend. i know he's had sex before but i don't know with how many girls. we used a condom and …

Scared??? 
So i am a 18yr woman. I have had a bf for a year now. So i am very scared because all of a sudden i thought i had a yeast infection and it is not. im going …

trying to cope, stuck for life 
I was a virgin until i was twenty years old. after i had sex for the first time with one man i only slept with one other man using a condom with the second …

my girlfriend has cold sores that look like herpes after 8 years 
This is the first time it happened in 8 years. Does this mean she cheated on me?

finding out and the outcome. 
Im 19 years old and contracted genital herpes just before my 19th birthday.. Ive had 3 sexual partners, my boyfriend of 1 year and a half he cheated on …

15, and drunk one night stand. 
So, last night I went to a party, got drunk and high off my ass, and had unprotected sex. I asked him if he was clean, and he had said yes. I have only …

People need to be educated more about STD's. 
As I was making love to my bf, I noticed that he grimaced in pain. He said he was a little sore from too much love making. A week later the same thing …

Herpes is hard to detect in men 
I've been making love with my bf of 2 months, when I noticed he was grimacing as if in pain. He said it was from too much sex, but I believed that was …

fighting outbreaks will bring you peace again 
i am a male and contracted it at 21 while being drunk and stupid and at first really thought that my life which was going great at that moment is over. …

This is going to be one hard adventure. 
When i was younger, i would always tell myself that getting an STD isn't gonna happen to me. Well later on down the road, i got Chlamydia. This was only …

taken advantage of and drunk 
i had just turned 18 and i had been hanging out with this guy who had told me he had genital herpes. i knew from that moment i didn't want to ever get …

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i dont know if i have herpes 
i have like pimples that are at the top of my pubic hair that are almost perfectly round are in a cluster of about 10 and then i have ones that are separate …

stupid drunk hookup. 
I've had a cold sore for a week or two now. it was getting better until I went out, got drunk, and hooked up with someone. we kissed (of course) and then …

Scared to death please help :( 
Well i am 16 years old and had sex with 3 guys after my first i was tested for everything and i had no type of diseases. Now i have been with this boy …

16 and begged.. 
I begged my BF of 3 years to not put himself in me while unprotected, and he forced it in (I wouldn't say it was rape)..I may have herpes now and they …

it all started... 
When i had a one night stand. Which was rare for me because im an 19 year old girl. About a month or so later i ask one of my friends mothers to take me …

Husband cheated 
My husband cheated on me and I took him back and now I have Genital herpes. I am so so sad and have been crying most of the night. I wish That I wouldnt …

My husband died of cancer 2yrs.ago and I have not been with any other personsperson 
I had a place around my rectum that looked like a crack from and old stretch mark from pregnancy.I tryed everything, finally went to the DR..She said it …

Go Easy On Yourselves 
HSV1 or HSV2 isn't the end of the world. My wife and I live with it just fine. When I met her some 20 years ago after my first wife and I separated, …

I had no Idea 
Well i'm waiting on the results but my doctor is sure I have Herpes. I had no idea! In Dec. when I got the blood test for it, it was negative, but then …

I think I have Oral herpes... 
I have a nice big "cold sore" on my top lip. I was just wondering if anyone has any tips on how to reduce the appearance? It is super embarrassing. I don't …

Scared... 
I found out by going to get my annual testing... I'm still in shock!!!.. Can't believe it!!.. Where do i go from here??.. How do i live with it??.. …

Still In Shock!!.... 
I went to the doc for my routine check-up.. Took every test from A-Z.. Everything came back NEGATIVE except for Herpes.. When i got the call from the …

No more outbreaks 
I take one 200 mg acyclovir with orange juice on an empty stomach first thing in the morning. I do not eat for two hours. I have a tingling sensation once …

im worid i have herpes 
2days ago i got this alful rash iv had thrush b4 but nothing like this its so sore and im crying most of the time through the pain and feel sick and run …

Old 7 year ex or new 6 month BF 
I just found out last weekend. I had been on antibiotics for almost a month and thought it was an extremely bad yeast infection until the blisters showed …

MY HUSBAND CHEATED 
MY HUSBAND CHEATED ON ME.NOW I HAVE HERPES.

What's Love got to do with it. 
I was with my partner for 7 years with unprotected sex when I found out that I had herpes. He swears he hadn't been with anyone else. It's hard to believe …

Wondering very scared! 
i moved in with my partner of 7 yrs on august of 2008 we recently split up.. on January 9th of this year i came to find out i was pregnant after christmas …

I was told...... 
10 years ago I started a relationship with a guy. He told me that he had herpes. I was humbled by his ability to be honest with me so we stayed together. …

my story 
uhh well im not sure if i have genital herpes or not i rencently had a cyst or pimple like bump on the head of my penis it w just 15 - my life is over? 
at first i thought they were ingrowing hairs? - in fact the doctors told me i had ingrowing hairs.. im just 15 and i lost my virginity at a stupid age …

I'm only 15 and never had sex. 
I don't even know how I got it...I have a really good rep. What do I do now?

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WHAT!?!?!?! I have herpes?!?!?!?!? 
I found out the other day that I have herpes. Im at 28 year old female. I was very drunk a few weeks ago and had sex with someone. With in not even a week …

High School Herpes 
Hi there, my name is Anne but that is all I am going to reveal right now. I am still in high school and would like to ask that if I was just touching my …

No One Knows I have Herpes 
No one knows I have herpes, not even my spouse. I have asymptomatic herpes and intend to keep things this way. I take the prescribed meds my physician …

herpes or hemmroids? 
I'm a 23 year old male. About a month ago in the shower i was cleaning the crack, and felt an odd stinging feeling Ive never felt before. While going to …

.my.story. 
I was out one thursday night with the girls at a bar having a couple of drinks. I was having a great time, untill I woke up the next morning with no memory …

- ahy i wana die  
- well im 14 years old & i had sex with this guy who i think i fell in love with . & but he played me & cheated on me , & i had unprotected sex with him …

idkk if i have it or not... 
ok, i was WAS with some boy *(exx] andd his exx toldd everythingg one that he haves herpes, cuz she gave it to himm. but that girl lies alot. so yea, …

I think I have herpes 
I have two weird circles on my vagina they hurt an itch and I don't know what it could be. I have a boyfriend an he has a cut on his lip and he eats me …

Ask.& think 
ive always been sexually active eversince i was 13. never did or have i used protection ive had 11 partners so far and never did any partner alert me they …

Educated germophobic and now I feel prisoned 4 life ;( 
I was 21 now im 22 yo. I was always cautious of germs. Washing hands and carrying a hand sanitizer. Opening public restroom doors and faucets with paper …

as a single one i popped it …

dont know if its herpes 
Im 20 yrs old i haven't sex in a while but suddenly Ive gotten some pimples on my thighs which i think might be herpes and some on my genitals i don't …

Scared! 
Ok. My ex-boyfriend and I kissed and then I started getting little pimples/bumps around my lips. I have a new boyfriend and when we kissed I started getting …

I felt completely worthless!! 
Im am currently 19 about to be twenty. I got genital herpes when I was 16. It was a complete shock. I had been seeing the guy for 2 years and we had split …

so scared 
My boyfriend has been out of town on business for a little more than a month and comes back in four days. The second week he was gone I was went out to …

herpes at age 18 
i was with the father of my child for over 2 years and he cheated on me with someone that has been around im not sure if he gave me the disease because …

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56, widowed, flings, remarried, herpes 
I was widowed at the age of 50 after 29 years of marriage and never had a sexual relationship with anyone else during that time. My husband had a bad car …

4/2/10 
It all began with my ex boyfriend. I was with him for 2 years and he was constantly breaking up with me and cheating, even with my own "friends." finally …

Someone close to me have herpes 
just a few months ago one of my in-laws found out she had herpes...she is only 14...but she know where she got it from but she confronts the person that …

DO I HAVE HERPES?  
I have been with my boyfriend for about a year, and I have had sex with 3 guys before him. We didn't use protection, but I have never had an STD. Recently, …

I don't know if I have it? 
About a week ago I noticed a red bump on my inner thigh and at first I didn't think anything of it I thought maybe it could have been razor burn. It is …

24 hrs til JUDGMNT day 
Yesterday I took myself to the ER. I was having symptoms of a bad yeast infection and UTI. I was trying to rely on home remedies but it got worse. Thats …

Since the age of 13 
Around the age of 13 I got infected I was little and scared when I found out I might have herpes only during some time around that age I had some itches …

Do I have Herpes? Please help. 
Well 2 weeks ago today i unprotected sex with this girl i hooked up with. I was so stupid and i barely even knew her, I just wanted some I guess. Come …

a life changer 
all started when i lost my virginity. Thought i was madly in love with this kid, but come to find out, he gave me the clap. i was shocked and could not …

I didnt know what i was doing... 
well i started having sex at a young age, i was ignorant at that time so i sleep with different man with condoms and without,i got pregnant at 15 and i …

scared out of my mind 
I am getting married in two weeks and my partner and i both decided to get tested for every thing, me being a last minute person, i decided to wait till …

Confused/nervouse! What do you think? 
So a a few months ago I got this little bump on my inner thigh, and it was really small so I just thought it was an ingrown hair. It is just one I have …

Confused/nervouse! What do you think? 
So a a few months ago I got this little bump on my inner thigh, and it was really small so I just thought it was an ingrown hair. It is just one I have …

My ex boyfriend gave me herpes 
I dated this guy for 2 and a half years. I love him to death and trusted him. Towards the end of our relationship I had a feeling he was cheating. One …

Not fair that I contracted it this way not from sexual contact. 
I was staying with my boyfriend at the time who had a roommate. His roommate started dating this really seedy girl whom we all did not like very much. …

Confused? 
I went to the doctor to get the results of blood work, and was told I had herpes. I told her I possibly was having a breakout at that time. So she checked …

The Worst Day of My Life, (Oct 5, 2008) 
I had a visit from a guy I had previously been engaged to. I still had strong feelings for him, which is why all this was able to happen. When he was …

Not what I expected 
I was in two long term committed relationships before I was married. Ended up with herpes, but neither will admit to it (guess I caught it from the air?). …

Scared I might have herpes :( 
My boyfriend and I have been together for four months. About two weeks ago we went on a vacation and during that time he had a cold soar on his lip. He …

When I was 13. 
When i was 13 i made love to a stranger met at a concert. immediately after, i felt irrataion. and i already had scabs. now i have bumps at the base of …

I'm the worst 
I went on a vacation a month ago. I had a one-night stand. I was incredibly drunk in a bar, and I blacked out. I ended up in a hotel room with a random …

My Girl Friend Cheated On Me 
Bottom line... my girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me, gave it to me and now i feel like such a nasty dirty person. i feel like i don't even want to be …

i got it from my partner 
i was told he had it ...but he told me i could not get it if we were careful...well you guess it....i got it....it has been 10yrs since i have had it...i …

I don't even know... 
I had sex once, and it was 3 years ago but now I have these pimple like things by my vagina, and its been 3 weeks. I don't know what to do, i don't know …

i dont know if i have herpes or not? PLEASE HELP 
I've been with one guy who is still currently my boyfriend. i lost my virginity to him but hes had sex with multiple partners before me. we just started …

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Please help! I think I may have herpes and may not be able to see the Dr until tommorow or in 2 days. 
I had been sexually active with an ex-boyfriend and even though we were not a couple we have a long history together. I met him when i was 15 and we have …

unthinkable 
When I realized that my husband was having an affair I immediately made an appointment w/ my GYN. To my dismay I found out that I have herpes. I was crushed. …

Im so scared 
I just recently found out that i have herpes part one. when i received the news. i started crying. I was thinking that this is the end for me. I was really …

Am I sick????????????? 
I have had some small white bumps on the head,right around the edge of my penis since I was a child, Long before I started having sex. I went to the Dr …

throat herpes 
I haven't been diagnosed with herpes yet but im pretty sure that's what I have...Ive been so stressed out and depressed. Do anyone know how long it takes …

im not sure. 
i need answers like i have two white reddish bumps on the shaft of my penis it doesn't look like herpes but i am scared that it is..and the chick i slept …

Tell them? Or die with your secret? 
I had what you would call the classic herpes symptoms 7-8mths ago, but have tested negative on two occasions. I didn't feel that this was a conversation …

when a woman needs to run... 
I met my partner in a course I registered for in undergrad. It was a tough class and we were top performers. I believe that is where the attraction began...We …

Do I have herpes? 
I was in a greyhound bus when a girl called me to sit with her. Make a long story short she gave me oral sex. Can I get herpes like that?

Its tough, but so's life... 
I'm 19 and a day ago i was confirmed to be carrying the herpes virus. I'd already accepted it before then so i cant say that that one phone call on Tuesday …

scared and worried..need advice ... 
I recently met the most amazing man, ( who's now my boyfriend), totally hit it off, didn't have sex with him the first night but were both pretty drunk …

I don't know what to do 
I've been sick for the past week. I finally went to the doctor and she said I had an ulcer on the back of my throat. she tested it and said it was just …

will my life ever b the same? 
well im 38 and i just found out i have hsv2 i went for a routine check up and asked for every test everything came back clear except for this one. i was …

I KNEW SOMETHING WAS UP 
WELL HE INVITED ME OVER TO HIS PLACE. AN X THAT IS AND AT FIRST I WAS RELUCTANT BUT EVENTUALLY I GAVE IN. I SHOULD'VE LISTENED TO MY GUT SCREAMING AT ME …

white sores inside of mouth 
September of last year I performed oral on this person. Someone tells me that she had herpes in the genital area, but he was upset with her and he may …

MY EX NEVER TOLD ME 
HE NEVER TOLD ME, UNTIL DR TOLD ME I HAD GENITAL HERPES 2.. I'M OUTBREAK IN THE PAIN BADLY.. I TOLD HIM WHY U GAVE THAT.. HE ACT LIKE PLAY DUMB WITH ME... …

Found out the hard way 
I even made preparations to go with her to get tested. She hid the fact that she tested positive to the virus and even had sex with me that very day.

WORRIED 
I WENT TO THE CLINIC 4 A YEAST INFECTION AND THE LADY TOLD ME I MAY HAVE HERPES BUT IT COULD B FROM WERE IM SCRATCHING. I AM WORRIED SICK I DON'T HAVE …

Just found out and feel so alone and dirty! 
I've been to the gum clinic today with a break out of red very sore lumps I have genital herpes they aren't sure yet which strength! I feel so sore, dirty …

Innocent or Guilty - Herpes doesn't care. 
Thank you for making this site anonymous. I have herpes and have been living with this for years. For this reason, I am single and am soon going to be …

WTF Santa Cruz 
Pretty Simple it seems.... Considering it's all in the past now, and Hindsight is 20/20. I'd spent too much time in my adolescent life focusing on the …

this is my story.. 21yrs old 
I know we all feel the same way. We always think about that day.. what we wouldve shoulda could have done.. but WE DIDNT..which brings us here. Sometimes …

worse day of my life  
Wel me and my partner had SEX about 3weeks ago and for the last 3days I've been in pain all of sudden my VAGINA has not been the same it started as a boil …

Not Sure 
So just recently Ive gotten a lil bump near my vagina, and Ive looked at pictures and done lots of research and im almost positive its not herpes, but …

FYI 
I just learned today that the painful fluid filled cysts inside my vagina is the result of an active genital herpes outbreak. I was told that not only …

A worried wife.. 
My husband and I have been married for just over 3 years. About a week ago, we had sex and the next day I woke up and my (private part) was on FIRE. It …

Always Alone .. 
I think I might have herpes .. Everything changed in just one night . That one night you decide to Lose your virginity to an old head . One night can …

In the dark herpes 
I was married an before we had sex I made him go too the dr so I would be safe he did so an showed me he had a clean bill of health several yrs later …

Im lost 
Im completely lost. Im 16, & well I did my fair share of things to get a name for my self. I went to tge doctor the other day and she said I have a bv …

I NEED HELP PLEASE ANSWER 
Hi have these things on my vagina that i think are herpes (ulcers) but mine are not little and round, They are kind of long and looks like maybe i scratched …

I need advice please :,( 
Ok,.. First of all im 16,..so i've been having unprotected.sex with my boyfriend of 6 months, this past month i've been having some issues down there... …

Heart Broken 
well to put things the best way i can, I lost a good man because some jerk gave me this, I have had it for years and still can't get over the fact that …

I need EVERYONES thoughts/advice Please!!!!!! 
Ok so 3 days ago I started experiencing this pain in my vagina, so after the first day I looked in the mirror and notice that I had 2 ulcer looking sores. …

Scared to death he'll leave me 
At the beginning of the summer, I had a boyfriend who sexually abused (not actual sex, but still things I didn't want to do) me over and over again. Well, …

A LIFE SENTENCE GIVEN BY SOMEONE ELSE. 
Let me start by telling you my story. In the late spring of 2010 a friend of a family member was staying with my mom and i at the time. He took friendship …

Im terrified.. 
Blisters started appearing a few days ago so i went to the doctors and they said its genital herpes but they will do a test and make sure. They also said …

Unsure If I have it...(sorry for the detailed story) 
When I was 20, I started dating a guy in my neighborhood, who I've known since elementary school. I never hung out with him in high school because he …

39YO Woman Just found out Positive for HSV1&2 
Ok so I had a my annual done on 8/17/2011 and plus I had a full work up done as well (herpes, hiv, etc) So I went in today to get my results and everything …

Undiagnosed and scared 
I am a 26 year old male. I am getting married in 5 weeks with my fiance whom I met last year. A month after our first time having sex I noticed what appeared …

19 year old positive for HSV-2 
So when I got home from college, my sister and I both switched gynecologists, because I had been seeing an adolescent gynecologist up until that point …

I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend (who didn't know I was a virgin) & I was recently tested positive for herpes. He thought I gave it to him!!! 
I lost my virginity a few months ago to my ex boyfriend and it wasn't till 2 months after I started getting really bad pains when I peed and I figured …

Not Normal 
When I was only 15 years old , an older guy took advantage if me and change my entire life in one night . Now at the age of 19 sometimes I don't feel like …

Scared to tell someone I am really interested in... 
I was diagnosed with herpes 3 years ago when I was 19 years old (3 days before my 20th birthday). I contracted it through oral sex from my ex which is …

worst day ever 
im 20 years old and when i first found out i have herpes i cried my eyes out i knew somethimg was wrong when i went to shave i had a lot of pain and then …

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freeeaking out 
I'm pretty sure I already know the answer to my so called "question" but people on here have herpes so they would know better then me. 3 days ago i noticed …

He couldn't give me love so instead he gave me genital herpes.... 
In the past, before this guy, i had only slept with two guys. So, needless to say, its not like you have to be a slut to contract an STD. You just have …

THE BIG SECRET WITH A DISGUSTING STD 
I was 18 when i found out i had genital herpes, and never had sex with a guy, i experimented with girls... when i was 16 i started having sex with girls …

phone call literally changed my life... 
I was just watching a movie on a beautiful Friday afternoon. My phone rang, and realized it was a blocked number. I answered, knowing it was the result's …

Found out two days ago.. 
So I got the phone call that no one wants, and my heart started beating fast. I texted the man I've been sleeping with without protection for the last …

Husband gave me Herpes 
I got married December 2009 and 3 months later in March 2010 I noticed a sore on my vagina. I went to the 2 different Dr.'s, got tested and the results …

44 years old Woman who got Herpes 2 in College at 20 years of age 
When I was in college I contracted Herpes 2 (Genital Herpes) at 20 years of age. I unfortunately did not have a steady boyfriend in college and was quite …

Not Sure if I have it, how do I know :-/ 
My Clitoris area recently started itching very bad; I took a look @ my vijay & saw some bumps (I think) on the side of my vijay. I shave my vijay daily …

Herpes Stories 
i had not long moved from a busy city town to a quiet town and had always had a VERY active sex life and only ever contracted genital warts which got treated. …

Tax payers help banks and car makers  
Why does the government has us help the banks and car makers get richer but they can't tell the tax payers help with funding for a cure. That really sucks. …

I HATE OUTBREAKS!!! 
My first time having sex was 16..about 2wks later my genital area was extremely broken out...my cycle had started and I thought it was friction from my …

So I May Have Herpes . FML ! Im SCARED 
So here goes the story , during the last couple of days of summer i was smoking & drinking & what not & on one particular day i ended up having sex with …

Husband of 8 years hid herpes outbreaks. 
I recently had an episode that terrified me. I went to the doctor and they did testing to confirm that I have genital herpes. I told my husband immediately …

Got herpes from being raped  
Eight years ago I was raped I found out at the age of 14 that I would have genital herpes for the rest of my life and it has been a struggle trying to …

who am I now? 
I believe that depression led me to having unprotected sex with people. In the year 2000 a female did oral sex on me and I fingered her and she told …

depression 
I believe that depression led me to having unprotected sex with people. In the year 2000 a female did oral sex on me and I fingered her and she told me …

surprise 
My first outbreak i thought was hemorrhoids. Couple years later another outbreak. I have them all the time now. May go a couple months between breakouts. …

Sound like Herpes? Please Respond 
I am a 26 year old female and I haven't had intercourse in 6 months. My period recently ended and a few days later I noticed a red tender sore on the inside …

never trust males  
i was hanging out with this male then we had sex for 3 days and i didn't see nothing so i didn't bother to ask, even though my friends where saying he …

Living in Fear 
I was diagnosed back in 1990. I was dating this guy and we use to have protected sex. One day I stayed over at his house and the next morning I went to …

Me and Mr.Jones 
It was our first time have unprotected sex. In 3 days I discover white blister on the lips of my vagina. I went to my OBGYN and got tested. The result …

My Story 
It was a drunk mistake that I would take back if I could. I hooked up with this guy I had just met and because we were both drunk no condom was used. I …

just wondering 
I had unprotected sex with an x-boyfriend and now I have what looks like a rash on the back of my leg nothing on my vagina at all no burning no sores no …

Scared of a life sentence 
It is now Sep 2012. I am now 33 yrs old. From March-May this year I had unprotected sex with a "jumpoff". In June I started dating someone else and we …

Did my spouse cheat? 
I've been married 10 years. My spouse & I were both clean, last night I gave oral, this morning I have facial herpes! Did my spouse cheat? Could it have …

I accept my Girlfriend with Genital Herpes 
Hi People i have a girlfriend she infected Genital Herpes but she don't say me 1st meeting but today she tell me but I never intercourse with him but today …

I must be an idiot. 
Firstly, i'd like to explain a little about myself. I am 20. I have been with the same boy since i was 14. We have always remained completely monogamous. …

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Diagnosed 3 months ago 
I was diagnosed with herpes 3 months ago and I was devastated. I have no idea how I got This terrible disease as my partner has not had any symptoms and …

16 with herpes. it gets better 
Me and my boyfriend have been dating nine months. We had sex around are 5 month. It wasn't our first time though. He ended up eating me out .and didn't …

Want to know if I have herpes. Very scared 
I have a large red patch with little bumps around it between my thigh and my testical area. It itched for about the first two days, not very bad though. …

I NEED HELP VERY BAD. Please comment need help... 
I have a large red spot and red bumps around it, I have had unprotected sex with my girlfriend. We were both tested a few months ago and we were both free, …

Blister? 
My ex and I had started having sex, and after about 2-3 months I noticed I had something that looked like a single blister on the inner labia. The blister …

I'm confused, hurt, and in pain. Advice? 
This past Wed. I was feeling sore and a little itchy. Thursday i went in to get tested and they swabbed and confirmed a yeast infection. I'm 8 weeks pregnant …

wah. 
my penis, started hurting couple day's ago. when i pee'd, thought it was something else. but, i took a good look at it & realized it looked a bit different. …

I had unprotected sex with a guy I really care about...Now What? 
I received herpes from a guy about 9 years ago and just recently broke up with him. I had one outbreak right away (9 years ago) and I have never had one …

confused as hell 
Me and my ex wife had been separated for eight years. During that time, i met a wonderful girl who i had a relationship for seven months or so. We started …

I blame myself.... 
I don't know how to deal with blame and disgust towards myself mixed with the feelings of betrayal and anger towards man whom i had a sexual encounter …

how could i get herpes. did he cheat 
I have been with my husband for almost 7 years. I went to the doctor today because I have some bumps and have a ton of white milk like liquid gushing out …

im not sure what to think 
okay could someone please help me out here me and this guy ive been seeing we will call him john well john said i got this pimple on my dick and he showed …

Partner has sores in groin area. . .SCARED! 
I am a 45 yr old female. My boyfriend and I have known each other for 2 1/2 yrs now. We have had our break ups during this time period and have been together …

Help Need Advice 
I just found out that I have Herpes and dont understand how I could have contracted it. I dont have any legions on my skin neither do I have bumps. I am …

Its scary but not the end of the world 
I had little tears on my vagina and so i went to the doctors hoping to get something to fix them. She then tells me it looks like i have herpes. I had …

My vejay itches 
I had unprotected sex with my partner like a week ago and now my vejay itches really bad and I have redness and I'm really scared what can it be?

I find out tomorrow 
I'm 22 and recently had my first case of hemmorhoids. During the second night of painful swelling I couldn't sleep due to an itching and burning sensation. …

16 and have herpes 
I had my first out break about 8 months ago. I didn't think much of it.. It was extremely painful but I didn't think anything of it. I lived with the extremely …

What did i do); 
Im really young.,i never listened to my mom or my sister.. i had unprotected sex., and i got the herpes. He said and Promised he didnt have an STD. Turns …

help please! ! 
Last year around september I got a yeast infection, well I guess that what it was. . Had to be cause I wasnt sexually active. But anyways the next month …

Made 1 mistake and ruined My life!  
32 yrs old. Had 2 very long term relationships. I've been abstinent for a year. All my previous paps and checkups have been negative. Recently met someone …

gotten checked for std twice and seen 4 doctor 
Cheated on my wife Oct 16 2011 felt burning sensation on penis after urinating and anus went to my docter and told him situation got tested came back negative …

Not sure if... 
Had Protected sex with a girl about a week ago. I'm freaking out. I only have one very small red bump with a small pit in the middle on my shaft. It itself …

how i got herpes .  
well i have been with the same guy for 5 months an we both have never had an std ever . an this whole five months everythings been . ok well i start …

26 year old virgin 
I waited until I was 26 years old and had a steady boyfriend to finally have sex. I did what I thought was all the right things, I waited until we were …

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Terrible 
Im only 16 and honestly I dont know what to say.. I have been with my current boyfriend for 10 months now. He Is a cheater I know this now , but the first …

Wishing I could forgive myself 
I was a child when I was infected with HSV-1. I remember always getting cold sores. It was what it was and I never really thought about it. No one ever …

Worried!!!! 
Every once in a while i get a small amount of white bumps on my penis, maybe once or twice a year they appear out of nowhere and they last for about two …

Living with herpes 
I found out that I had the virus 1 week after my new partner performed oral sex on me. Of course he denied that he was infected ,we both went to be tested …

Not so good. 
I found out I had herpes after reconnecting with my ex who initally cheated on me. I was such an idiot and should of known. I wasnt very educated on …

Scared to death he'll leave me 
At the beginning of the summer, I had a boyfriend who sexually abused (not actual sex, but still things I didn't want to do) me over and over again. Well, …

herpes and my babyfava 
i was pregnant my babyfava was cheating on me with a crackhead polish prostitute i noticed small blisters at the openig of my vagina ,i went to sti clinic …

Terrified 
I am not too proud of my past... I went through a faze in college and most the time used protection sometimes not. I just recently found out I have herpes …

I HAVE SYMPTOMS BUT HE DOESNT 
I met my fiancee sometime during the first week in april of 2011 and we had sex the first date. Everything was cool and all and my genital area was still …

18 Yrs old with the virus. 
To start off I just graduated last year, and me being a teenager I enjoyed to drink and party. After I graduated me and my friends went to go party and …

Screwed from the start and 6 years later. . .I'm happy. 
I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend ever. I was 15 and head over heels in love. We both discussed sex and using a condom. He said he went to get …

can women give other women herpes 
can women give women herpes

Herpes 
Human Herpes Virus one is what I was diagnosed with a few years back. I with a partner that gave me oral sex and did not tell me that he had this virus. …

Helllllp 
I received oral sex from my girlfriend. We are in a committed relationship. After I received it I got what I thought was an ingrown hair and now the bottom …

HELP 
About a year ago I came down with some symptoms and after visiting a doctor I was diagnoised with oral herpes. The moment I found out I called my girlfriend …

Full of guilt 
I have never been diagnosed with Genital herpes, but a previous partner was. I've had outbreaks but I've been in total denial. No one knows about it, I …

Why everytime we kiss... 
My girlfriend is getting a sore in the same part of her month after we make out. The last three times after making out she getting this sore that go's …

My husband denies he has been with other women 
I was diagnosed with herpes about three weeks ago. I was totally devastated. My husband has been my only sexual partner for 17 years. He denies having …

Never say Never 
I was diagnosed with herpes about 2 years ago now. I was sexually abused as a child and although I don't blame it for the mistakes I have made, I know …

lies 
soo i am a 17year old girl but when i was 16 years old i had been speaking with a boy who had just turned 18, i really liked him, we spent a whole week …

Not The Only One 
So I just want to say ya'll are very couragous people, I got on this website to look up the symptoms && what an outbreake looks like. Im 20 yrs old && …

I'm sorry.... 
One day my husband and I fought about our son. He said that I was not doing a good job with our son. I felt bad really bad. Arround that time I was also …

Herpes 
well first to say im a diabetic insulin dependent so I would be sick right if I had it right. Anyway I do get lots of yeast infections when my sugar is …

FEEL TRAPPED NOW SO I MARRIED THE MAN THAT CURSED ME 
I had dated my ex boyfriend in high school for 6mths we had sex a few times and I ended it and moved on with my life, well two years later we meet up in …

Mistakes of being promiscuous  
Around Christmas I got drunk sex with someone new , after a while there was no more condoms I said no let's not go raw he didn't understand we had unprotected …

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a bali experience 
i got back from a trip to bali yesterday. We went to have a great time, relax party and explore! we did do that, but this ruined my trip :( We have a …

confused/doughtful 
ok well were do i stert i resently descovered a bump/sore on the bottom of my tounge and i didnt know what it was and i still am not really sure. i did …

confused and doughtful 
i really dont want to put my name out there but here is what i am going through..... very recently i noticed a little bump/sore under my tounge/bottom …

Life Changing 
I am 18 years old and only yesterday I found out that I have herpes. Me and my boyfriend have been having issues and I knew he was sleeping with someone …

A hard lesson learned 
I am 15 years old and have type two herpes. I was diagnosed with herpes two today. I slept around and diddnt think of how it would turn out in the end. …

I'm so lost. 
I had small red bumps near my private area. I didn't pay any attention to it because i thought they were pimple. I just started dating this guy and we …

OMG 
I cant say i've always made smart choices. In fact ive made a ton of bad ones. Since ive gotten older, I have been a good girl. I've been with my boyfriend …

Just found out... 
So I went to the ER on Monday because I had some vaginal itching and redness and I was concerned because I've never had anything like this before. The …

no words 
My boyfriend and I had been dating for a wonderful two years. We talked about everything and worked through everything we ever went through together. He …

Any answers for this? 
I have had this itching feeling on the tip of my penis for a while and I haven't had sex, there are little red dots on it but I have no idea what they …

don't undeerstand y!!! 
I've had a lot of problems with my down belows for about 3yrs now and I'm 22 at the moment and I've experienced pimple like things inbetween vagina and …

do i have something? help! 
So I hadn't had sex in 12 months. I went from having sex a lot to none for about 12 months and then I had sex with a girl who just recently lost her virginity …

Question 
I have been in a relationship for 6 yrs, we been having problem last 6 mnths and went the 6 months not having sex he said it was because he was stressed, …

I think i may have genital herpes :'-( 
I had unprotected sex over the weekend just gone and i noticed after that i had a small red lump. It got worse. It then started to look like an ulcer and …

there bumps on my penis  
went to mexico over the weekend this girl had weird bumps on the vagina i didnt think nothing about it till a week later i had the same bumps on my face …

Husband found out he had it 8 years ago. 
While my husband was in Oregon, last month, I developed a horrible pain. At the same time, as it turns out, he was having a bad Herpes outbreak. When …

i hade sex with some one a few times then they told me they have hurpes and i am so scard  
So I have known thos girl for almost two years now she was bi and she was into me.. at first i was like no she is cute but i want a older girl so i don't …

NOT MY FAULT 
I was placed in a emergency foster home when i was 9mo. old after they had me in their home for a couple for mo,I guess that they decided to adopt me.this …

Omg I found out da hard way 
Well wen my boyfriend and I started to have sex I noticed somethin on his area but I didnt bother to ask him now dat he is lockd up I thinl I hav herpes …

Husband Gave Me Herpes 
I am in counseling, taking an antidepressant, and a handful of immune boosting supplements. I still feel absolutely hopeless. I broke out and asked my …

Passed on by touch of a finger 
I was seeing this girl and I did not know she gave bl*wjobs two people for money and we were together for six months and she went to the bathroom I was …

i dont know what it is 
I am an 18yr old and have had 2 boyfriends. One, i only had oral sex with. After i was with him, i got HIV tested and came out negative. Months later …

be careful 
I had found out that i had herpes when i was pregnant with my second child. before i met my boyfriend. I was dating; always used protection and there was …

confused 
Okay so the only thing close to sex I've had was dry humping(all clothes on) but i ejaculated(inside of my clothes). I have bumps on my penis and they're …

TRUST NO ONE!!! 
im a 22 years old i didnt think this could happen to me due to the fact that i always use condoms. but a man came into my life i loved him very much n …

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Angry... 
Hi everyone. I have been living with herpes for 15 years now. I was in a relationship for 3 months and I told my partner about my condition. We were wearing …

my life with herpes 
i have been living with herpes for 5 years i recently had a baby boy who have the virus too i found out the hard way and its very hard for me up until …

Surprised 
Well, me and my boyfriend did it for the first time. And its been 2 weeks now and i have yellow dots around the top of my vaginal area, and im not sure …

I need advice pls 
So recently I found out my ex boyfriend who i was with for 2 and a half years has herpes, and I was the only person he was ever with he hadn't even kissed …

I need advice pls 
So recently I found out my ex boyfriend who i was with for 2 and a half years has herpes, and I was the only person he was ever with he hadnt even kissed …

It Should All Be Ok 
My name's Malory and I'm twenty years old. I was dating my boyfriend for about seven months. When we first started dating, he let me know about his virus. …

The day that changed my life. 
I lost my virginity when I was 18(I'm nineteen now) to my ex-boyfriend Shane. We only had sex that one time because he met someone else the day after. …

I honestly don't know what to do... 
My age shouldn't matter but, I'm going on 18 this month. the last time i had sex was 7 months ago, but just a week ago i had a pain in the inside my "area" …

2 virgins with herpes 
Me and my boyfriend of 3 years Lost our virginity to each other. Somehow me or my boyfriend gave the other genital herpes from cold sores. I was diagnosed …

Help 
My friend has herpes and my other friend told me that you can get it by sitting on her toilet seat so I'm checking out and i felt down there and there …

I found out in the School Bathroom 
I went to a suburban school and was very naive. He was my 1st at fourteen. We met in Jr. High and had planned on going to the same high school in the …

15yrs old only slept with 2 people and have herpes 
Ive slept with two people which is ex partners. The last time i had sex was 2 weeks ago. early this week bumps came up and became very sore so i went to …

confused and scared 
well im 13 and i had sex for the first time on December 21st and me and my partner used protection and he never said anything about having herpes sooo …

I may have given herpes to the love of my life. 
The other day I had sex with my girl friend. Directly after I had noticed 3 large bumps on my shaft that looked like herpes. The next day i had one on …

Herpes or what? please help 
Okay i am 19 year old male i have had odd bumps on my shaft, they have never itched me ever they are fairly noticeable. A girl friend awhile back gave …

I'm not sure if I have it 
I had bumps at the tip of my penis they were just little red bumps 1 or 2 then they went away since then I had 1 one night stand while drunk. I should …

Lover left me with Herpes 
I dated this guy for 7 years during which we also conceived a daughter after three years of dating. Our daughter will be four shortly. 6 months ago my …

Its hard to face when the doc says get your children tested 
Im 25 years old and was diagnosed with the herpes virus about 3 weeks ago. Due to having the virus I had a miscarriage. So I guess this gave my Doc the …

confused and don't know what to do? 
I'm 18 years old and through my life I had sex with 9 guys only, 4 was unprotected. 3 months after my birthday I found out I had an std (chlamydia) I think …

first time... 
I am 18 years old and the first and ONLY guy I've slept with gave me herpes . Hardest thing I've had to deal with especially since he stopped talking …